Faith and the Buffalo Bills

"I PRAISE YOU 24/7!!!!!! AND THIS HOW YOU DO ME!!!!! YOU EXPECT ME TO LEARN FROM THIS??? HOW???!!! ILL NEVER FORGET THIS!! EVER!!! THX THO..."

The words are from a tweet by Bills wide receiver Stevie Johnson following his awful day against the Steelers.  The dropped pass will follow Stevie for years to come, both personally and professionally.  Until he has the chance to win the big game with a catch (and I believe that he will) THIS is going to be the play for which he is remembered.   And that’s really too bad.  Prior to this game Stevie Johnson has been an incredible addition to the Bills and a lot of fun to watch.

What jumped out at me though is what he said in his tweet.  It’s a great chance to take a look at some commonly held beliefs.  Let’s break the tweet down:

(And Stevie, why all the SHOUTING?  I’ll do this in polite cyber- tones)

“I praise you 24/7”  A good place to start and I’ll take him at his word.  The problem is, quite simply, yeah, so what?  Does God owe you something because you praise Him?  No, it’s our place and duty to praise the Creator of the Universe (and us too).  It is our appropriate response to the Divine.  If we DON’T praise Him 24/7 will God somehow be deprived by that lack?  Again, no.  I believe that God is saddened when we don’t pray to Him on a regular basis but we can’t gain the upper hand in “negotiations” with God by withholding prayer.  So pray for the right reasons, not because you think you gain something by it.

“And this how you do me?” Um, no.  Let’s get past the idea that God gives a darn about football games.  Even better let’s get past the whole idea that every time something bad happens in our lives it’s God’s fault.  You see the underlying assumption there is that our lives would be perfect if God didn’t keep messing them up.  I hope you can see how screwed up that idea is without a long explanation from me.  No Stevie, God gave you all the tools you needed to make that catch.  Your quarterback put the ball right where it was supposed to be and the Steelers defense (sigh, lifelong Steelers fan here) left you WIDE OPEN IN THE END ZONE (sorry, I promised not to shout)!  And you dropped the ball.  You did it Stevie.  Not God.

“You expect me to learn from this???? How???!!! I’ll never forget this!! Ever!!!”  Three thoughts but all related.  God expects us to learn from everything.  The good.  The bad.  The boring.  Life is not a spectator sport.  You’ve got to keep your head in the game as the football players say.  How do you learn?  One way is by not forgetting what happened to you.  It’s about remembering how bad it feels when you screw up and hurt the folks around you.  The memory of that pain is a great way to work hard to avoid ever being in that position again.  Remember the joy of getting it right.  That’s inspiration to do what it takes to get back there as well.  Pay attention.  Make sure you use your gifts to the best of your ability, every time, all the time.  Trust me, no matter what age you are you’re not done learning.  Thinking you know everything is the best way to set yourself up for some major pain and failure.

“Thx tho”  In the end Stevie gets it right.  Even when you’re mad at God (and getting mad at God has a long and distinguished history.  It’s OK, God understands) always remember to say thanks.  Thanks for your life, thanks for your gifts, thanks for the person or people in your life that makes a difference, thanks for the chance to be the person making a difference.   Thanks for kittens and puppies and sunsets and thunderstorms.  Thanks for all things that make you special and your life special along side.

In the meantime say a little prayer for Stevie Johnson.  A lot of people are dumping on him right now.  He feels terrible.  Remember what it felt like the last time you screwed up.  Pray that God will help ease his pain.  And give him another chance to win a game for our Bills.

Peace

Jay